Did you know that fear of failure is the greatest obstacle to success in adult life?
In fact, it’s the most effective way to keep yourself far away from living your best life.Most people are stuck in the continuously-seeking-approval mode. We consider whether we would be liked rather than if we would make things right when deciding to take an action.
Have you ever experienced a day where you feel like you’re up in the sky when boss praised you, and down like you’re deep in the hell when boss scolded you?When boss compliments to you, you affirm yourself and increase your value.When boss criticize you, you negate yourself and decrease your value.
This is the most common trap people fell in in their adults life. Falsely determine self values by things that are not even close to truth.The fear of failure and being criticized is holding you back. This does nothing but to paralyze you from taking further action and moving forward to become the best version of you.
99% of adults experience the fear. They’re caught in an endless cycle trap of “I have to but I can’t…”.The reality is, If you’re thinking that you’re not good enough and doesn’t worth much, somebody else put the voice in your mind. You’re special. You’re valuable regardless of others thoughts and words.
Action exercise : The two keys to reach your peak performance
(1) Affirm yourself,
You can do anything you put your mind to. Tell yourself “I can do it.”whenever you feel afraid to lean forward for any reason.
(2) Continuously remind yourself that you’re valuable.
Your value is not in others thoughts or words. The temporary failure is the catalyst to help you reach your success.
Remember, you’re the best, you’re special, and YOU CAN DO IT.
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